Meeting someone can be a good feeling, but what to expect the first 3 months of dating, can easily be determined before the dating begins. This is how it works, you start out as friends first, you share several different experiences and you start to notice that you two is on a high level of care. You like each other and now it’s time to take your friendship to another level.
As usual I cannot express this enough in my articles, although you may be friends you must establish and understanding before dating can even take place. Now that your friends, you need to know if your potential future date Want what you want and that’s a future commitment. What is a commitment, a commitment is when two people can come together and agree upon a commitment with each other. A relationship commitment involves love, trust, being open with one another or some other behavior.
now that you understand that you should be friends first and what a commitment is, now it’s time to establish one. How do you do that? This is a very simple question. Talk it out amongst yourselves, let each other know how you feel and explain how you want to take your friendship to another level. So the best thing to do at this point, is to simply ask.
Being friends first
As I mentioned before, asking your friend are they looking for a serious relationship is one of the most important questions that you can ask, that way you will know if you want to continue on with the friendship or not. So you’re ready to take it further and now it’s time to ask. If all went well you will get exactly what you want and that’s the start dating.
what to expect the first 3 months of dating
when you start dating it’s like heaven on Earth. The joy that it can bring to someone’s life is miraculous. Now although everyone is different and we may go about things In another way, here are my 30 suggestions on what to expect the first 3 months of dating.
- Phone calls
- Sending photos back and forth
- Early breakfast
- Feelings of happiness
- Getting to know each other more on a personal level
- Getting to know family members
- Learning each other’s spiritual backgrounds
- Learning each other’s criminal activity (If any)
- Where you travel to and from
- Where you would like to travel to
- What you like to do in your spare time
- The type of work you do
- Going out to the theaters
- Home visits
- The good mornings
- The good night’s
- Sharing stories
- Late night calls
- Early morning calls
- constant smiles
The first three months of dating
Up above is the expectations for the first 3 months of dating. Although there may be more, these are the basics. Dating can go on for many months to years because there are stages to dating, but along the way you may experience all of my suggestions from 1 through 30. I want the best for you, but it doesn’t always go that way. Here are 30 expectations in the first 3 months that can go wrong.
- Feelings of sadness
- Date not on time
- Being stood up
- Doesn’t call enough
- You only receive text
- You don’t meet any family members
- Date nights are always at his or her house
- You learn he/she is a felon
- He/she is still married
- Not enough attention
- verbal abuse
- Physical abuse
- You learn he/she is in a relationship
- scared of a commitment
- No future prosperous goals
- Drug usage
- Fowl mouth
- Not gentle
- No mercy
- No understanding
- Multiple personalities
- He/she is difficult
If you encounter a person that displays any of these types of behavior, choose wisely. Mathew 10:16, the King James Version of the Bible the text reads: Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as dove.
Making wise decisions
you want to make sure you’re making wise decisions. What can happen if you don’t, here are 10 reasons why:
You will avoid:
- Waisting time
- Low self-esteem
Even though there are more reasons why you should practice making wiser decisions and what you would avoid if you do, these are at the top of my list. All you have to do is love yourself and value who you are.
Bonus – How To Love Yourself – 22 Simple Ideas by Sharon Martin